What to Do During a Panic Attack
When your brain decides that going to a coffee shop on a Tuesday is as dangerous as wading through an alligator swamp. When you are standing in the grocery store and your body starts going into sweats and your heart feels like it’s under attack while you are picking the right bunch of bananas.
You might be having a panic attack. And this is new to you (or not). Either way, you need to know what to do during a panic attack. So let’s get to it.
What to Do During a Panic Attack
Figuring out how to act during a panic attack is tough, one reason is because there is no magic bullet to get everyone out of it. It’s not like a rainstorm, where you can just grab an umbrella, and you’re good.
I mean, in a panic attack you are actually asking, “Am I dying right now?”
And the more you think about it, the worse it gets.
However, there is some good new here. Even though there is no panic attack umbrella equivalent, there are some things you can do.
Things you can do in the moment, and things you can do for the long term. Even people who have lived with them for years often experience tremendous improvement with the right support.
What to Do:
If you’re wondering what to do during a panic attack, the first goal is not to force the panic to disappear.
Which is counterintuitive.
Desperately trying to stop the panic makes your body think something really wrong is happening here. Your brain and body are like an excitable puppy here. If you get all excited or fearful, they will go right along with it.
Instead, the goal is to teach your brain that you are safe.
For that to be the case, you yourself have to understand that you are safe during a panic attack. It is always a good idea to name what you are experiencing: “This is a panic attack. I am safe.” Then try these things.

Some strategies that can help include:
- Breathe. Slow your breathing without forcing huge deep breaths. Gentle, steady breathing often works better than dramatic inhaling.
- Grounding. Look around and name five things you can see, four you can touch, three you can hear, two you can smell, and one you can taste. This grounding exercise reminds your brain where you actually are.
- Name it. Tell yourself what is true. “This is panic. It feels overwhelming, but it is temporary.”
- Relax. Loosen tight muscles in your shoulders, jaw, and hands.
- Stay still. Stay where you are if it is safe. Running away every time panic appears can accidentally teach your brain that ordinary places are dangerous.
These things are all acts of courage. And they are based on real evidence that not only help you get out of a panic moment, they have real physical effects on your body and mind.
Remember, sometimes courage is simply remaining seated on the couch while your nervous system learns that it doesn’t need to keep pulling the fire alarm. This takes consistency, but eventually it makes all the difference.
What Not to Do During a Panic Attack
When panic shows up, people naturally try to escape it.
It makes sense.
Unfortunately, some common coping strategies make panic more stubborn over time. The things we do to try to stop the attack make matters worse.
Things like avoiding every place where panic has happened, constantly checking your pulse or blood pressure, repeatedly asking others if you’re okay, using alcohol or drugs to calm yourself, or convincing yourself that every physical sensation must be a medical emergency despite repeated reassurance from healthcare providers.
Do you do these things? Maybe. Are you over reacting? No; you are doing what makes sense to you. Does it help? Probably not.
Your brain is trying very hard to protect you.
It’s just using outdated instructions.
Along with what you can do during the panic attack, you may want to consider ongoing therapy. Therapy often helps people rewrite those instructions with ones that actually fit their lives today.
What if I Have Panic Attacks All the Time?
If panic attacks happen repeatedly, it’s easy to start organizing your entire life around avoiding them.
People stop driving.
They avoid airplanes.
Restaurants become stressful.
Crowds feel impossible.
Eventually, life begins shrinking one decision at a time.
Here’s the encouraging part.
Treatment often includes understanding the nervous system, identifying anxiety patterns, learning practical coping skills, gradually reducing avoidance, processing underlying stress or trauma when appropriate, and helping your brain regain confidence in situations that once felt overwhelming.
Many people don’t simply learn to manage panic attack symptoms.
They eventually stop fearing panic itself.
That distinction matters.
Because when panic loses its power to terrify you, it often loses much of its power to control you.
Can Therapy Really Help Panic Attacks?
Yes.
Not because therapists possess magical calming powers hidden inside expensive coffee mugs.
Because panic follows understandable patterns.
When those patterns become clearer, they become treatable.
At Lido Wellness Center, therapy is tailored to you. Some people benefit from cognitive behavioral approaches that help change fearful thinking patterns. Others need trauma-informed care. Some discover that long-standing stress, depression, grief, perfectionism, or substance use has quietly been fueling the panic all along.
Our PHP and IOP programs provide structured support while allowing many clients to remain connected to their daily responsibilities. Treatment isn’t about convincing you that your symptoms aren’t real.
They’re very real.
It’s about helping your nervous system stop mistaking discomfort for danger.
That may sound like a small difference.
In practice, it can change an entire life.
You Don’t Have to Keep Living in Fear
If you’re ready to learn what to do during a panic attack, understand why they keep happening, and discover lasting ways to manage panic attack symptoms, we’re here to help.
Call Lido Wellness Center today at 949-541-8466 to learn more about our programs and take the first step toward feeling safe in your own mind again.


